Moving In and Making It Happen: Finishing Our New Build, Completing Our Home Accessibility Changes all while avoiding Back Surgery
Hey y’all, let’s chat about the true grit it takes to persevere through what feels like a never-ending to-do list, especially when it comes to creating the home of your dreams. Imagine this: you’re on the final stretch of finishing a brand new house, a sanctuary meant to be a haven for you and your loved ones. But life throws a curveball, and suddenly you’re faced with the need for your hunkyman’s accessibility modifications, all while the shadow of an impending back surgery looms over you. That’s a story about not just building a house, but about building resilience, determination, and hope.
For the past three weeks, it’s been a whirlwind of builder BS, contractors, and decisions. Every detail, from the width of doorways to the change of kitchen cabinets, to calming colors throughout … it has been carefully considered to ensure the house is not just beautiful, but liveable for every member of our family. It’s about more than aesthetics; it’s about creating a space where barriers are minimized, and independence is maximized. It’s a labor of love, fueled by the vision of a life that embraces both the needs and the dreams of both of us.
And let’s not forget the elephant in the room – my quest to avoid back surgery. It’s like preparing for a marathon you never signed up for, but you’re determined to cross that finish line with flying colors. The doctors have said recovery road may be 6 weeks, but the thought of recuperating in a home that’s been molded to support me through the healing process is a balm to the soul.
So here’s the thing, friends – perseverance isn’t just about pushing through the tough times; it’s about the mindset you carry with you. It’s about waking up each day, putting on your game face, and tackling each task, no matter how daunting, with a spirit that says, “I’ve got this.” It’s about finding humor in the midst of chaos, and joy in the progress you’re making, inch by inch.
As I stand in the midst of boxes and paint cans, I’m reminded that this house is a metaphor for life. It’s about foundation and structure, yes, but it’s also about the love and care that goes into making it a home. And just like the modifications I’ve made to the house, I can adapt and modify my life to meet the challenges head-on, with a heart full of courage and hands ready to work.
So to anyone out there feeling overwhelmed by the mountains in front of you, remember this: you are capable of incredible things. Whether it’s building a house, modifying it for a new chapter in life, or facing surgery, you have the strength within you to persevere. Keep your head up, your faith strong, and your sense of humor close by. You’re not just building walls; you’re building a life, one day at a time. And that, my friends, is something to be proud of.
